Tuesday, February 26, 2013

Leggings - Jeggings - Shmeggings...


   Those of you who know me, know that I hate leggings (in any form). You also know that by me just saying, "I hate leggings," I'm making the understatement of the year. I have many reasons for this disdain, but I won't go into extensive detail. My biggest qualm is the modesty factor...they aren't. I also know that I'm not the only one that feels this way about leggings. More feel that they're fine, and even cute, if they're worn correctly. I don't mind them in this case, I just wouldn't choose that style myself; I think it looks tacky. Anyway...many of you may be thinking, "Uh...how are leggings not modest? You're completely covered!" I beg to differ. Here's why...
    In the LDS For the Strength of Youth pamphlet (which doesn't just apply to youth), it states that "immodest clothing includes short shorts and skirts, tight clothing, shirts that do not cover the stomach, and other revealing attire. Young women should wear clothing that covers the shoulder and avoid clothing that is low-cut in the front or the back or revealing in any other manner" (emphasis added). 

-- My conclusion? Covered does NOT equal modest!! --

   Ok, so you're probably thinking, "what on earth does this have to do with the media?" So, as stated in my personal description box, I'm a student at BYU. Here, this post has a lot to do with the media; or at least the recent lack thereof... One or two semesters ago, there was an ad all over campus encouraging women to wear leggings correctly if they chose to wear them. It simply states, "To the Knees Please: Leggings are NOT pants."  Leggings aren't against the honor code (a list of rules and guidelines every student signs upon becoming a student at BYU) in and of themselves, don't get me wrong! It just becomes a different story when they try to pass as pants or a way to make those short-shorts or mini skirt modest. Here's where the big media info comes in: In preparing for this post, I couldn't find this ad anywhere!! Now, since it's on the post, I obviously found it at one point, but it took over two weeks! It was also a huge stroke of luck in that I'm almost never in the building I found it in. I thought this to be odd since BYU is usually pretty strict about the honor code. I find it unfair that a man will get turned away from the testing center if he's not completely clean shaven, but a girl wearing leggings as pants is welcomed in with open arms (as welcoming as the testing center can be...ha ha). I don't know about you, but a guy with a 5 o'clock shadow is quite the minor offense compared to a girl that looks like she painted her legs whatever color she felt like that day. Not to mention the fact that most leggings are see-through. I've seen more than my share of butts and panties on campus, thank you very much! It was so easy to find the sideburn and beard ad, while it took me over two weeks to find the leggings ad. I really hope I'm not the only one that sees a problem with this...
Without getting up too high on my soapbox, I'll just say that I know modestly is an extremely important principle to live by. Lots of people may not think it is...but it is. :) SO...C'mon BYU! Get into gear and take care of the issues that are more important than a guy's beard...which is all of them!! I don't want this post to be directed only at BYU though. I also want to encourage everyone everywhere to think twice next time you or a friend is deciding what to were. Outside of a marriage relationship, nobody wants to see your butt. If they do, they're probably not the kind of person you should be associating with. You may think your new lacey panties are cute, but we don't. In conclusion, I'd like to share one more picture I found in my search for the BYU/SA ad. I find it kind of ironic since people wear leggings in every way nowadays...and that none of the "proper" ways shown on this ad are modest. *sigh* Silly world we live in, yes?
Remember, it's the little things in life!
Lindsey

Thursday, February 14, 2013

Holiday Media

I was chatting with a few friends of mine about the pressure that the media adds to most holidays. Being the day before Valentine's Day, we asked my roommate's boyfriend if he was nervous or felt pressure about the coming day. He answered "yes" as if we were crazy not to be! To my roommate, it's not a huge deal. I'm sure most women see Valentine's Day as a special day, but I'm also sure (based on last night's conversation) that most guys think that most women have extremely high expectations, and this causes unnecessary drama, stress, and anxiety! 
We had the "dating talk" in Relief Society at the beginning of this month, and I think most men would be surprised the hear what this group of women said makes up the best dates. According to the men, it's call the "lame date." You know the one: a nice walk/drive to an ice cream place then a chat on a park bench or something. Nothing extravagant, just simple, thoughtful, and meaningful. While we do appreciate something "extra" or special once in a while, it's DEFinitely not as much as the media makes it out to be! So men, take a deep breath and stop adding extra pressure to yourselves! On the other hand, women, if your man has obviously gone the extra mile, let him know you appreciate it, but don't require or always expect it! Ah, the media and its sneaky way of guilting people into following its schemes. Again, "don't get sucked in!" ;)

Remember, it's the little things in life!
Lindsey 

Thursday, February 7, 2013

Some Insight for Now...

Alright, so I'm in the middle of writing a post about leggings. Those of you that know me should be pretty excited. ;) For now however, I'd like to just throw in a short blurb on commercials. Back in the good ol' days, it was deemed as inappropriate to show an onscreen kiss any longer than 3 seconds. It was also a "no no" to even have one bed shown in a married couple's bedroom, so as to not even hint at anything risque. I feel it quite the sad commentary on our society how things have changed. While I think these two precautions may have been a bit much, it seems as if anything goes nowadays! At least withing the last few years, the more sketchy or mature commercials were limited to channels that are meant for older audiences. Today though, there are extremely dirty commercials on channels like PBS! As if it wasn't bad enough to have certain commercials allowed on TV at ALL! Goodness... I also feel like commercials in general are becoming worse and worse, which is probably why those commercials mentioned above made it successfully onto channels meant mainly for young children. On the more mainstream channels, I've noticed that several lines have been crossed. I've seen a couple of things in commercials that should only be in rated R movies (not that I approve of anything of this nature should be shown at all, but still...)! A roommate and I saw something of this nature and couldn't even think of much to say because of our complete shock! EEW!! I can't take that image back, and the TV show we were watching was completely innocent! So bugged... I know of a few people who have written and complained to some TV stations. I don't really approve of complaining about something that you may have a chance to do something about. We all know that TV is getting harder and harder to watch due to the lightness our society has placed on certain matters. SO...LET'S DO SOMETHING ABOUT IT!! Write who needs to be written. Talk with those you know. Let's do what we can in an attempt to make one of the most popular forms of media more safe and clean! YAY!

Remember, it's the little things in life!
Lindsey